HAPPY 4th of JULY

2025 marks the 249th birthday of America! Do you remember all the celebrations of the 200th birthday? People planted time capsules filled with memorabilia of the times. I wonder how many of them have been opened in the last 24 years. I wonder when they were supposed to be opened. I wonder what people put in those boxes! It’s so funny, we all came together for the celebrations and there were many. My husband at the time, Tom, was in the National Guard before going back to active duty. The Guard was invited to participate in the celebrations in either Sanford or Orlando. It’s a bit fuzzy where we were, i just remember it was a huge celebration. I was only 20 then. Sigh, how time flies!

Onward through the years, Tom went back to active duty, and we spend all our 4th of July’s at Army Posts and THAT is where you want to see a 4th of July Celebration! There is absolutely nothing like the pomp and circumstance of a military band and all that goes with it; watching and listening to the band playing Stars and Stripes Forever (a favorite of mine) and all those other military songs gives me chills. This U-Tube is from 2011 and it is still beautiful!

My favorite one was when we were in Germany and the celebration included the military band and the parade of state flags. It is amazing to see all the state flags walk by and line up but having this in another country is even more spectacular. We were far from home and yet it felt like we were not. Military families give up a lot living overseas so anything that feels like home is always extra special.

Side Note: Did you know the flag should never be allowed to touch the ground and should be illuminated if flown at night. I knew about touching the ground but did not know it needed to be illuminated if flown at night. There are disposal sights also, VFW’s or American Legion’s will take your torn and tattered flags and dispose of them properly.

Tom and I lived in Germany for 6 years, 2 separate tours, one in Kitzengen and the second in Stuttgart. I loved both locations for different reasons. Kitzengen was pretty rural, and it was great for us as Tom’s rank wasn’t very high, and it was affordable. I worked at a German Cookie facture! Stuttgart was a big city and by then Tom had rank, and we could afford living there. We were an hour from the French, Switzerland, Austrian borders and travel was easy. I worked for The Assistant Chief of Staff VII Corp Division (which sounds more impressive than it was haha). So, we had a wonderful life there.

One of the things the Army drilled into our heads when we lived and travelled in foreign countries was that we were ambassadors of the United States everywhere we went. For all of us that are world travelers today, please remember this. Our country allows us freedom of speech and opinions that may not be popular but as we travel, we don’t have to share our dirty laundry! It’s ok if you don’t agree with me, I’m used to it! LOL.

Please remember all the soldiers and their families that gave their lives for our freedom. I celebrate them today!

This is our community’s beautiful Veteran’s Memorial!

(thank you Sissy for the picture of your beautiful arrangement!)

TUESDAY NIGHT IS MUSIC BINGO

Bingo is a big deal everywhere from Churches, cruises, gambling ships etc. If you want to find a place to play I think it will take about 5 minutes to find a game close to home. Funny too because all ages like it; men and women alike; And our community is no different. We actually have 3 nights of bingo here which fits all budgets!

MUSIC BINGO is my favorite because it is LOUD and lively and so much fun! Granted it is not for everyone, but nothing is, right?

This is Henry and Jerry. They are our hosts and they do a great job volunteering for us each Tuesday night. There are tons of behind-the-scenes volunteers that bring this thing together and we are extremely grateful for each of them, but Jerry and Henry are the faces that run the show! You might be thinking why is Jerry wearing a Parrot hat? Well, that is his thing. He has tons of unique hats and each week he has a new one. I think people give him hats when they find one that they don’t think he has! Henry runs the computer and keeps us straight with the songs played and Jerry is the MC. He keeps the crowd happy.

Music Bingo is the same basic format as any other bingo game except there are song titles on the sheets instead of numbers. Henry plays a song, and we mark it on the sheet. Pretty simple!

I know some venues of music bingo do not announce the names of the songs after they are played but Henry does. I like to guess the name of the song to see if I am right, keeps my brain ticking! But most everyone uses a music app to get the song titles without guessing. The above sheet is a normal sheet before the game starts. Below is the normal look of MY sheet when the game is finished!

I don’t win very often but, for me, it’s more about the music and the game than the win.

Our restaurant is the HUB of our community. Each night we hold a different event. It is more than just Bingo or the other events. This is our gathering place. There is a routine to it, most of us have our general table (area) where we sit at each week, kind of like church! You can always spot a newcomer; they are at the door with the deer-in-the-headlights look on their faces. Everyone helps them find their peeps, old or new. Music Bingo is a very popular activity, and the rooms are full but there is always room for one more! We celebrate our life’s moments with each other which makes us more like a family.

Dancing is welcomed. Whether it is on your feet or in your chair the point is to have fun. People love to sing along at their tables and remember when these songs were special to us. There are so many categories, each week is a bit different. Jerry roams around the room looking for people who want the microphone to sing along. Most people are singing at their table with all they have until the microphone gets to their mouths and then nothing comes out! It is definitely not karaoke! (THAT is another night!)

Our girl here not only took the mike, but she also gave it her all. She was AMAZING.

Music Bingo is all about the music, our love of music. General categories are normally from the 50s to the 80s, Country (old and new) ELVIS, and Henry adds Theme Songs and commercials too. Once they reversed it and did the ARTISTS as a category, I loved that one but I’m thinking I was probably the only one, I don’t recall it ever being done again. I can be a weirdo! I don’t know how Henry designed the program, I just know it is great fun and we all enjoy it. And yes, the entire room explodes when Henry plays Sweet Caroline, or JUMP, or Celebration, or SHOUT! You get the picture. Just because we are 55+ doesn’t mean we don’t move our feet!

My hubby, John, and I, make it an evening. (full disclosure, he’d rather stay home, but he does join me anyway!) We go up early for dinner and visit with our friends until the music starts. When we participate in these social events, we get out of the house, meet new people and it lifts our spirits. So if you ever see me at music bingo, or anything else, please join me. I’m so glad to welcome you to our little slice of fun and heaven.

Who Am I?

MY LIFE IN A 55 PLUS is a blog about, well me, and my life! I may be 55+++++++ but I
still have lots of dreams and living to do. I live in a community in Zellwood Florida,
outside Orlando, it is a 55+ community which means you must be 55 years old to live
here. We are a manufactured home community, on over 800 acres. There are tons of
amenities including an 18-hole golf course, our own on-site Whistle Stop Restaurant,
tennis, pickleball and more activities than you can keep up with. I hope to feature many
of these as I go forward so everyone can see life moves forward with or without us. I
prefer to hang with the “with us” rather than the “without us” but I will also drag you
along!


In case you didn’t guess, I love to write stories, as well as travel, dance, walk, talk
(LOL), eat good food, meet new friends. I am a later in life Realtor, which turned out to
be a bigger passion than I expected. I genuinely care about people, and I love the
LORD with all my heart. No, I won’t preach to you, and yes, I accept you where you are
and as you are. I try to be kind to everyone and fail too.


My husband of 22 years and I moved to Zellwood 2/7/2012 and we never looked back.
We had a big home and a big mortgage and were never going to “own our home”.
When we found this community, I had to un-snob myself and let go of the manufactured
home mentality and allow the good things to flow through. Our community is clean and
beautiful, lots of green space and nature. Homes are not crammed together, there is no
“zero lot lines”. We were already paying a large mortgage, so we took that money and
bought our home We buckled down and in no time, we were debt free and able to live
our life instead of paying bills.


John retired and I still worked, and as it was getting closer to my retirement years, I
went to real estate school and got my license. As I built my business, I was able to retire
from my job for 28 years and put my efforts into full time real estate, which I loved.
Again, moved forward and never looked back!


Can’t believe we have been here 12 years and can’t believe how much our life has
changed. We never could have imagined this life, and yet, here we are! We have
travelled all over the world with more trips being considered. We have friends that we
care about, a beautiful home, good health and happiness!


My hope is to share my life with those interested and see where we go. I have a lot of
stuff rumbling through my brain and sharing it helps get it out of there! I look forward to
genuine feedback and ideas for future writing!